Only Love is Real - FinanceInsights

by Dr Brian Weiss

This is the story of soulmates reunited.
There are no coincidences in love.
How we find and recognize our soulmates and the life-transforming decisions we must then make are among the most moving and important moments in our lives.
Destiny dictates the meeting of soulmates. We will meet them. But what we decide to do after that meeting falls in the province of choice or free will. A wrong choice or a missed chance can lead to incredible loneliness and suffering. A right choice, an apportunity realized, can bring us to profound bliss and happiness.
There is someone special for everyone. Often there are two or three or even four. They come from different generations. They travel across oceans of time and the depths of heavenly dimensions to be with you again.
You are bonded together throughout eternity, and you will never be alone.
He takes your hand for the first time, and the memory of his touch transcends time and sends a jolt through every atom of your being. She looks into your eyes, and you see a soul companion across centuries.
Soul recognition can be immediate. A sudden feeling of familiarity, of knowing this new person at depths far beyond what the conscious mind could know.
The touch that awakens may be that of your child, or a parent, of a sibling, or of a true friend. Or it may be your beloved, reaching across the centuries, to kiss you once again and to remind you that you are together always, to the end of time.
There are many gods, for God is in each of us.
The Master Spirits tell me I have lived 86 times in physical state (from the patient during her regression session).
We choose when we will come into our physical state and when we will leave. We know when we have accomplished what we were sent down here to accomplish. We know when the time is up, and you will accept your death. For you know that you can get nothing more out of this lifetime. When you have had the time to rest and re-energize your soul, you are allowed to choose your re-entry back into the physical state. Those people who hesitate, who are not sure of their return here, might lose the chance that was given them, a chance to fulfill what they must when they’re in physical state.
I have seen patients remember a name during the recall of a recent lifetime and subsequently find old records that validate the existence of that past life person, confirming the details of the memory. Some patients have even found the graves of their own previous physical bodies.
Many of my patients recall habits, traumas, and abusive relationships that not only occurred in their past lifetimes but are again occurring in the current life. For example, one patient remembered a violently abusive husband in a past life who has resurfaced in the present as her violent father.
I once regressed a man from South America who remembered a guilt-ridden lifetime as part of the team that helped to develop and ultimately drop the atomic bomb on Hiroshima in order to end World War II. Now a radiologist in a major hospital, this man uses radiation and modern technology to save lives rather than to erase them. He is a gentle, beautiful, caring man in this life.
While under hypnosis, a patient of mine remembered being born as a twin. The other baby was stillborn. However, the patient never knew that she had a twin sister. Her parents never told her about her stillborn sibling. When she told her parents about her experience under hypnosis, they confirmed the complete accuracy of her recall. She was indeed a twin.
So many of our fears are based in the past, not the future. Often the things we fear the most have already happened either in childhood or in a past life. Because we have forgotten or only dimly remember, we fear that the traumatic event may become real in our future.
An abortion, or a miscarriage, usually involves an agreement between the mother and the soul that would enter the baby. Either the baby’s body would not be healthy enough to carry out its planned tasks in the coming life, or the timing was not right for its purposes, or the outside situation had changed, such as the desertion of the father when the baby’s or mother’s plans required a father figure.
The soul does not enter the body right away. Around the time of conception, a reservation is made by the soul. No other soul can have that body. The soul who has reserved that particular baby’s body can then come into and out of the body, as it wishes. It is not confined.
During pregnancy, the soul is gradually more and more attached to the baby’s body, but the attachment is not complete until around the time of birth, either shortly before, during or just afterward.
You can never harm or kill a soul. The soul is immortal and indestructible. It will find a way to return, if that is the plan.
Author: I have had cases where the same soul, after a miscarriage or abortion, comes back to the same parents in their next baby.
Author: After one of my workshops, a participant told me a marvelous story. From the time she was a little girl, if she let her hand hang over the side of her bed, another hand would lovingly take hers, and she would be reassured no matter how anxious she was feeling. Often, when her hand accidentally went over the bedside and the grasp surprised her, she would reflexively jerk back her hand, and this always broke the embrace. She always knew when to reach for the hand and to feel comforted. There was, of course, no physical form under her bed. As she grew older, the hand remained. She married but never told her husband about this experience because it seemed so childlike. When she became pregnant with her first child, the hand disappeared. She missed her loving and familiar companion. There was no hand to take hers in that same loving way. Her baby was born, a beautiful daughter. A little while after the birth, while lying in bed together, the baby took her hand. A sudden and powerful recognition of that old familiar feeling flooded her mind and body. Her protector had returned. She cried with happiness and felt a surge of love and a connection that she knew existed far beyond the physical.
A patient said during regression – Love is the strongest force in the world.
Message from the master spirits – Remember that you are always loved. You are always protected, and you are never alone. You also are a being of light, of wisdom, of love. And you can never be forgotten. You can never be overlooked or ignored. You are not your body; you are not your brain, not even your mind. You are spirit. All you have to do is to reawaken to the memory, to remember. Spirit has no limits, not the limit of the physical body nor of the reaches of the intellect or the mind.
Love is not an abstraction but an actual energy, or spectrum of energies, which you can ‘create’ and maintain in your being. Just be loving. You are beginning to touch God within yourself. Feel loving. Express your love. Love dissolves fear. You cannot be afraid when you are feeling love.
Intellect is important in the three-dimensional world, but intuition is more important.
God forgives, but you also have to be forgiven by people… and you have to forgive them. Forgiveness is also your responsibility.
A reunion with a soulmate after a long and involuntary separation can be an experience worth waiting for – even if the wait is one of centuries.
In heaven, where physical bodies are not needed, soul recognition may occur through an inner knowing, a sense of a loved one’s special energy, light or vibration. You feel them, in your heart. There is a deep and intuitive wisdom there, and you recognize them completely and immediately. They may even help you by assuming the body they had during their last incarnation with you. You see them as they appeared to you on earth, often younger and healthier.
In the course of our lifetimes, we change sexes, religions, and races in order to learn from all sides. We are all in school here. Birth? If we never really die, then we are never really born. We are all immortal, divine and indestructible. Death is nothing more than walking through a door into another room. We keep returning in order to learn certain lessons, or traits, such as love… forgiveness… understanding… patience… awareness… non-violence… We have to unlearn other traits, such as fear… anger… greed… hatred… pride… ego… which result from old conditioning. Then we can graduate and leave this school. We have all the time in the world to learn and unlearn. We are immortal; we are infinite; we have the nature of God.
Real power comes from knowledge. Real wisdom is applying that knowledge in a caring and benevolent manner.
Our task is to learn, to become God-like through knowledge. By knowledge we approach God, and then we can rest. Then we come back to teach and help others.
Dreams may provide pathways to recovering repressed or forgotten memories, whether from childhood, infancy, in-utero experiences, or even from past lives. Past-life memory fragments often emerge in the dream state, particularly in those dreams in which the dreamer sees scenes from the years or centuries preceding his or her birth.
Psychic dream occurs when communication with a person at a distance is experienced. The person may be alive and geographically distant, or the communication may be with the soul or consciousness of someone who has died, such as a relative or dear friend. Similarly, there may be communication with an angelic spirit, a teacher or a guide.
Keeping a dream journal near your bed and jotting down what you remember of your dreams significantly enhances the memory.
Do not attempt to end your life before its natural time.
You will not always marry your most strongly bonded soulmate. There may be more than one for you, because soul families travel together. You might choose to marry a less bonded soul companion, one who has something specific to teach you or to learn from you. Your recognition of a soulmate may occur later in life, after both of you are already committed to your present-life families. Or your strongest soulmate connection may be to your parent, or to your child, or to your sibling. Or your strongest connection may be to a soulmate who has not incarnated during your lifetime and who is watching over you from the other side, like a guardian angel.
Sometimes soulmates decide not to get married while incarnated. They arrange to meet, to stay together until the agreed upon task is completed, and then to move on. Their agendas, their lesson plans for the entirety of this life, are different, and they do not want to or need to spend all of this lifetime together. This is not a tragedy, only a matter of learning. You have eternal life together, but sometimes, you may need to take separate classes.
Never worry about meeting soulmates. Such meetings are a matter of destiny. They will occur. After the meeting, the free will of both partners reigns. What decisions are made or not made are a matter of free will, of choice. The less awakened will make decisions based on the mind and all of its fears and prejudices. Unfortunately, this often leads to heartache. The more awakened the couple is, the more the likelihood of a decision based on love. When both partners are awakened, ecstasy is within their grasp.
Listen to your heart, to your own intuitive wisdom, when making important decisions, especially when deciding about a gift of destiny, such as a soulmate. Destiny will deposit its gift directly at your feet, but what you subsequently decide to do with that gift is up to you. If you rely exclusively on the advice of others, you may make terrible mistakes. Your heart knows what you need. Other people have other agendas.
The kingdom of God is within you.

Disclaimer: The key points of the book presented here are not a substitute for reading the book. To get the entire holistic message the author has offered requires reading the book.

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